Who am i…? I’m 49. My given name is Tammy but I much prefer justy I’ve come to the realization that my name doesn’t define me and neither do my labels I was hiding from. The fact remains that I changed my name legally to justy in Aug. 2012. Going back to Tami in Nov 2017
(justy stands for “justagirl” It came to life 20 years ago in a chat room on Bondage.com servers)
What am I… ? a registered, tattooed showing my slave number SLRN-837-404-184/slave/slut girl hidden inside a grown up womans body….
(If I say I am a clingy, needy, attention whore will that get someones attention? grin)
Here is something that best describes it.. in the simplest English terms.
“FULL-TIME LIVE IN CONSENSUAL SLAVE: Within no more than a few broad limits/requirements, the slave regards herself/himself as existing solely for the Dom(me)’s pleasure/well being. Slave in turn expects to be regarded as a prized possession. Not much different from the situation of the traditional housewife, except that within the S/M world the slave’s position is more likely to be fully consensual, especially if the slave is male. Within the S/M world, a full time “slave” arrangement is entered into with an explicit awareness of the magnitude carefully, with more awareness of the magnitude of power that is being given up, and hence is usually entered into much more carefully, with more awareness of the possible dangers, and with much clearer and more specific agreements than usually precede the traditional marriage.”
I do know the difference between slave and submissive.
A piece of heaven is being Masters lil slut ^big grin^
I am not bratty though I can be sarcastic in a respectful fun way. Ive been accused of being cute and coy. I do not thrive on attention so intently that I need to pull stupid pranks or be so bratty that it actually becomes monotonous and stressful. Do I love attention and affection.. ohh yess but I find it is much more fun to be good and please to get that attention and affection.
A Favorite pass time is having a big pillow to kneel and or curl up on at Masters feet while He watches a movie, plays on the comp, or plays with me! Also snuggling in bed!!
Advice to all other bottoms/subs/slaves/babygirls – know ones self.. know the hands of whom one would put their life in… one lives only once.. and though trials and tribulations befall all.. waiting and joining with the right One is much more rewarding then the harsh lessons of not waiting and feeling the dreadful hurt throughout every inch of ones being when the “One” isn’t the right One. Remember even for a slave… it is worth having the best in a Master/Mistress/Daddy etc…
Type of Master/Dom I seek: a good, kind, strong, loving, wise, fun to be with type 🙂 loves to play, foundation building and maintaining, he’s Real. He’s one who can be strict.. yet know when its time to pamper…
Some things non BDSM she likes to do: movies, painting, web design, long walks on the edge of the water on a beach, nice rides in the country, music, Djing, dancing, computers.